A Love Rekindled: Ashanti and Nelly's Journey from Friends to Forever

The Breakdown: Ashanti and Nelly's relationship began in 2003 and went through several years of on-and-off dating. After rekindling their romance in 2023, they confirmed their reunion with public appearances and eventually tied the knot in December 2023. The couple welcomed their first child, Kareem Keinkaide Hayes, in July 2024, marking a joyful new chapter in their journey together.

Ashanti, formerly known as the Princess of R&B, was a part of the Murder Inc. label in the early 2000s, releasing her self-titled debut album. Nelly was also just starting out with his career, releasing his album Country Grammar. Their paths first crossed in 2003 at a Grammy Awards press conference. Fast forward to today, the couple is happily married and welcomed their first child together in 2024. Let’s explore Ashanti and Nelly’s relationship timeline.

After meeting in 2003, Ashanti and Nelly dated on and off for about a decade, keeping their relationship mostly quiet. Still, the two artists were seen together in public numerous times throughout their relationship. I am running a few minutes late; my previous meeting is running over.

In 2005, Ashanti mentioned that she went out with Nelly but denied being in a relationship. In June 2008, Ashanti told People about being involved with Nelly. In December 2009, Nelly released the single “Body On Me,” featuring Ashanti. In 2016, they were seen together at TAO’s Anniversary Party. From 2009 to 2013, speculation grew as people wondered if the two were still together. In 2013, rumors of their breakup surfaced.

Fast-forward to 2021. Ashanti and Nelly reunited during the Verzuz battle featuring Ja Rule and Fat Joe. Neither of them knew they would see each other; it was a surprise for both.

After the event, Ashanti shared during Ja Rule’s Instagram Live (per Baller Alert), “I had no idea he was going to be there.”

Though unexpected, she described the encounter as pleasant, and the two shared a hug. Nelly later stated that he was just being cordial and chill toward everyone, and it wasn’t anything more than that.

In April 2023, rumors started again as Ashanti and Nelly were seen spending time together. They were spotted holding hands at the Davis-Garcia fight in Las Vegas. In June 2023, the two attended the 3rd Annual Birthday Ball for Pierre P. Thomas, CEO of Quality Control.

Fast forward to August 2023 — Ashanti appeared on Nelly’s Instagram story, singing "Nice and Slow" with him. Their undeniable chemistry made it clear they were more than just friends.

Ashanti didn’t confirm their rekindled romance with words but with her accessories at the VMAs. She was seen carrying a clutch purse featuring a throwback picture of her and Nelly, subtly confirming they were officially back together.

They tied the knot on December 27, 2023.

In April 2024, the couple announced they were expecting a baby. Just a few months later, on July 18, they welcomed their baby boy, Kareem Keinkaide Hayes.

Ashanti and Nelly’s relationship timeline is a testament to the idea that there is a time and place for everything, especially love. Throughout the years, they’ve experienced their ups and downs but ultimately found their way back to each other. Today, the couple is happily married and have a child.